Thursday, January 15, 2009
Munch munch
You know, everyone has been talking about the very realistic fact that friends come and go.
And that we should just rely on God.
***Please note: I’m not trying to counter argue anyone or anything but just taking what people thought and thinking…further. Heh. Always the case with fel.
So my question to you is:
So, when you get emotionally independent without your friends and family and with God, what happens if one gets to independent?
I don’t like being too emotionally independent. Undeniable, having to not be emotionally dependent on your friends and family is something that happens and also sometimes very hard.
It’s not good to be too emotionally dependent but in my opinion, not too independent as well.
As I strive to become more independent, I find myself building a barrier between my heart and the person next to me.
Because, to me, God made Eve for Adam because there was something Eve could offer to Adam but not God.
So, I should be right to assume that we ARE technically supposed to rely on people for support too right?
So how now?
“One can be dependent to a certain extent.” Uh. Yar. This sounds very nice theoretically.
Option 1: Well, a good way to gauge is if that person leaves, you’ll miss them, but you won’t die.
This should be the case for good friends. And it usually is.
But what happens to reallyreally good friends? Do you end up not relying on them as well? Or even making yourself not rely on them?
And what is the reasoning behind the trying? Why would you want to do that? It’s torturous!
Confusing stuff aye? Keep up with me.
Option 2: Rely on different people for different things. Spread your circle.
This is prolly the best option out of the two. But sharing too much to too many people is not good either.
Food for thought. Have fun! fel was shaking her ass at 1:39 PM